One blurb size example I saw was a 60+ man in India who had gone to country/rural setting where he had some family-like, custodial interactions with children & the estate that he found rewarding. Why would he like indy children & property instead of assuming it was some ephemeral error thing to be destroyed? See, I don’t know how to answer that. My experience was those are the normal sentiments & it is highly deviant to wish for offensive destruction. My survey of recent years tells me that military men mostly do not enjoy any great longevity of relationships or property among the military either. I don’t fully see the alternative premises, but I believe most people enjoy positive environments if they feel integrated there.