Love, sex, & emotional sharing are only some of the ways u are interesting/fascinating/charming. It never grows less when we are close. I don’t imagine that. U could write texts for me if u really wanted to. However it goes – our rules. I guess u will feel freedom, love, letting go, not self-conscious, togetherness, and … eventually, gather many other topics that resonate. I feel that emotional energy, sensitivity, intelligence, humor, fun, & commitment to authenticity are foundational…u are always being real, & u being your real self always seems like one kind of perfection to me. That’s my thought – u can achieve & sustain your own kind of perfection with no conscious artifice.
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